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The Power of Change

It is said that the only constant in life is change. Whether we like it or not, change is always happening around us. And whether we realize it or not, change is always happening within us, too. Just as the season’s change and the weather changes, so do our thoughts, our feelings, and our state of consciousness.

Why We Resist Change

One of the main reasons why we resist change is because we are creatures of habit. We like things to stay the same because it makes us feel safe and comfortable. When things change, it can be scary and uncomfortable. We may not know how to deal with the new situation or how things will turn out. So instead of embracing change, we often try to hold on to the familiar.

But here’s the thing: change is inevitable. No matter how much we resist it or try to hold on to the past, change is going to happen. And the more we resist it, the more difficult and painful it tends to be. So why not just go with the flow and let changes happen? What do you have to lose?

The Benefits of Change

When we open ourselves up to changes, we may be surprised at what can happen. Here are some of the potential benefits of change:

  • We can learn new things and gain new skills.
  • We can meet new people and make new friends.
  • We can experience new places and cultures.
  • We can become more flexible and adaptable people.
  • We can find new opportunities that we never would have found otherwise.
  • We can grow and develop as individuals.


While change can be scary, there are many potential benefits that come from embracing it instead of resisting it. So next time you’re faced with a change in your life, try to go with the flow and see what happens. You might just be surprised at what you discover about yourself along the way!


Gary Lim is the author of, a website that provides information and services for Properties in Singapore. Gary is a Licensed Practitioner in Real Estate and has been involved in the real estate industry for over ten years.

Gary is always a learner and constantly seeks wisdom, well-being and personal development. He believes that these are essential for anyone who wants to be successful in life.



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